25 Little Changes to Make the Day More Exciting
I admit it—I’m a change addict. I love new cities, apartments, jobs and friends. This can be both a strength and a weakness. On the one hand, I never shy away from a new experience or opportunity. On the other hand, it takes a concerted effort for me to stick with anything once the novelty wears off. So today I started thinking about all the ways I can make a day exciting without changing any of the big things that need to stay constant if I’m to make progress on my larger goals. Here’s what I’ve come up with:
- Start the day with a blank piece of paper and the question, “What if today were my last?” Write down what you’d do differently and then try to do at least 5 of those things.
- Wear something much bolder than you usually do. This gives people the opportunity to see you in a new light, which means they may interact with you differently.
- Take a different path when you walk to work. Maybe you’ll pass a restaurant you’d like to try sometime, or a gym that’s offering free classes.
- If you drive, park your car a mile away and take the bus the rest of the way. I did this one time and met a man on the bus who I dated for a month. Well worth the detour!
- If you take public transportation for your commute, make the time meditative or educational. Practice deep breathing, listen to soothing music, or download an audio book for the ride.
- Bring your camera and take pictures of things that catch your eye throughout the day. You’ll notice a lot more than you usually do—and new people will likely talk to you to figure out what you’re doing.
- Change your workspace. Bring new pictures and candles, or move your desk if you’re able. Rearranging furniture always makes my space more exciting.
- Start collecting something you often see throughout the day. It will make the whole day more interesting if you have your eyes peeled for rare coins, specific pens, and odd food labels.
- Make it a goal to talk to five people you don’t know. And I mean real conversations. Ask them what they do on the weekends, what their favorite memory is, and whether or not they like spam. (OK, the last one is less interesting—but I think it says a lot about you if you eat unidentifiable lunch meat.)
- Commit to complementing everyone you encounter on something. Sometimes it will be easy; sometimes it will be challenging. Every time it will brighten someone’s day and fill you with joy.
- Take a class during your lunch break. Head to the gym, learn to do pottery, start guitar lessons. You can always eat a sandwich at your desk later.
- Eat lunch at a different time than usual. You never know what you’re missing in the office when you head out at the same time every day.
- Make lunch and bring enough for two people—then offer some to someone in your office.
- Give yourself a challenge. Maybe it’s to find a lower car insurance rate or talk to someone you secretly admire. I get a big kick out of little victories like these.
- Read about a topic that’s completely new and interesting to you and then start a conversation about it. It’s always fun to share a new passion, especially if the other person gets excited, too.
- Learn 10 new words from a thesaurus, and then use them all twice during the day. Maybe I’m just a dork but I get excited about stretching my vocabulary!
- Practice mindfulness during a boring activity. In Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh’s book The Miracle of Mindfulness he explains how he stays fully present when washing the dishes—and enjoys it. Anything can be interesting if you get curious about how it works.
- Count risks. See how many (smart) risks you can take throughout the day—like accepting a difficult assignment or committing to something you’ve never done before.
- Say yes to everything. In the movie Yes Man, Jim Carrey said yes to absolutely everything—even an intimate moment with someone’s grandma. I’m not suggesting you go to that extreme, but you’ll likely have an exciting day if you say yes to most things you’re asked.
- Commit random acts of kindness. You’ll get a warm fuzzy feeling and you’ll create some good karma for yourself. You never know when that kindness will come back to you and open up your world.
- Bet on things. Once on The Office everyone bet on stupid things—like how long it would take Kelly to explain Netflix to Ryan, or whether Creed would notice they replaced his apple with a potato. If you’re pulling an all-nighter this could be a fun way to hold onto your sanity.
- Set up a profile on a dating site (if you’re single). I was on Match.com for a while—don’t laugh—and I have to admit I kind of watched my email like a kid counting down ‘til Christmas.
- Ask someone to come out to play. Kids are always willing to jump around, get messy, and give get their blood pumping. You still have legs and endorphins—tap into that. Play basketball after work, go bike riding, or spend some time on the swings.
- Learn something new during all your routine activities. When you buy coffee, ask the barista how long the shop has been there. When you make copies, pay attention to how the machine works.
- Swap apartments with a friend for a night. Assuming you trust each other, why not? A change of scenery can work wonders; and it’s always fun to see how someone else lives.
I once read that intelligent people are never bored because they’re always curious. You’re smart—start exploring! If you keep your mind engaged and fresh during your downtime, you’ll have far more passion and focus when it’s time to get productive. And equally important, you’ll enjoy more of the minutes that would otherwise just pass by.
By Lori Deschene
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Ooh, I love excitement. These are GREAT ideas. I’m definitely going to post a link to this on Twitter. I think a lot of people could benefit from some excitement in their lives.
I think this is great, ill try a couple of these for sure! I once did something related to no.25, when i was like 6 or 7 years old, i swapped notebooks with a friend in school, we both got told off, and she made a mess (horrible writing) but it sure was fun, and i still remember it with a smile. thanks a lot for your ideas!
Great ideas!
I particularly like #1. There’s nothing like contemplating your own mortality to help you clarify what is important.
I am the type of person who is the opposite in that I like habit. I do like change however I have a hard time adjusting to rapid & big changes. I think this post is also great for people like me because these things are a great way to add small changes without breaking too far away from all the habit, like a good medium for people who are too into change and people too into habit, it helps you break free from the extremes.
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A lot of my friends tried/use dating sites too which if you dont go out a lot is a good way to try & date. Also it seems more socially acceptable now’a'days to date online, not the it has to be accepted by the general public for it to be ok or anything
I do a few of the things on the list but I could/should always add a few more. It’d be good for me.
Positively~ Awesome. Thanks for the Twitter love!
Rosa~ I used to trade all kinds of things, too! Most often I wanted to trade lunch boxes when my mom gave me tuna fish…and my friend’s mom gave her McDonald’s. But I also liked to “trade families.” We’d each have each other over for a sleepover, and during the time we’d pretend the other person’s family was our own. Life was so much fun when it was totally OK to pretend.
Roger~ Amen to that. I’ve been doing this thing recently when I feel not very present. I look at whatever is right in front of me and tell myself, “Nothing exists or ever will except what I see right now.” I know in my head there will be other moments after, but this reminds me to really see and appreciate what’s right in front of me.
Mike~ This is fascinating to me. Sometimes I forget that not everyone has my inclinations. I think I don’t like routine because I easily go on auto-pilot when things are the same day to day. As for dating sites, I’ve been on a few. It seems totally normal now to meet people online since the internets is such a huge part of life. I’ll be curious to know which of these you try that you’ve never tried before
Wear something much bolder than you usually do.
That’s one thing I don’t do enough. Tomorrow, turquoise shirt.
Nice list, I enjoyed this.
i love compliments & new words
nice post
David~ I studied acting in college. My teacher made one day “opposite day.” Everyone had to wear something entirely different than their usual look and change their demeanor to suit it. (I was a goth chick at the time, so I came in wearing something really conservative.) It was an interesting little experiment to see how people responded to me differently. And I also noticed I naturally acted differently when I presented myself differently. My whole attitude changed. I’m kind of rambling….but this is all pretty fascinating to me.
Gina~ Thanks! I love compliments, too =)
Great list! I actually do practice mindfulness when washing dishes and folding laundry. I will try some of the other ideas!
That is an amazing phenomenon, I’ve had that happen. For a long time I was never much of a snappy dresser. I considered it unimportant, when it’s personality that really matters. But what a person wears really influences their personality. I pay much more attention to what I wear now, and it really has a profound effect on how I feel, my posture, etc. Worth experimenting with.
Lori~ Goth? That’s awesome lol. I had those spike wrist bands back in high school but always ended up spiking myself in the head when I laid my head on my hands on my desk. As far as things on the list I am/will do is the “Give myself a challenge,” and by that I am going to the gym which is something not my normal thing. I am also gonna start to try and “count risks.” As for the dating site one, I might try it if my current efforts don’t pull through so to speak.
David C~ It’s crazy how wearing different clothes can help change our behavior. I used to wear all black (and still do sometimes but not every day). I have a T-shirt that is red which is a bold color for me since I usually like blacks, dark blues and grays, so red is new for me. I have yet to wear a shirt that’s mostly yellow, but I guesss baby steps lol.
When I lived in Boston, I always did #5. I never felt like I was ‘en route’ to somewhere. When I would just practice breathing, I felt like I was doing something that’s just as important as work.
I also make sure to do #17 when I’m eating food. Of course, food to me is far from a boring activity - but eating mindfully and seeing the flavor of food is one of those pleasures we can experience every day. Everything tastes better when you’re mindful.
Thanks for a great post! I’ve subscribed.
Caroline~ Awesome! I’d love to know which ones you tried
Michael~ LOL Yes I went through a goth-ish phase. Crazy, huh? I had all these velvet corsets and a couple spiked collars–and then there was a whole closet full of black lace. Too funny about your wrist band. Wearing those could qualify as a risk to count
Good luck with your current dating efforts! (And if you do go on Match and need help with your profile, let me know!)
Jeffrey~ Where in Boston did you live? I am actually from Revere originally. Great point about breathing being just as important as work. All that mental/meditative maintenance makes everything else possible.
Nice one. A great read yet again.
That was very interesting, thanks for your insight.
Lori
Lovely and light post to start my day. I tend to be a bit change-averse on the whole (unless it’s big scale revolutionary change like moving). Maybe trying baby steps and getting into a proactive habit of change might help get used to the bigger changes.
“Start the day with a blank piece of paper and the question, “What if today were my last?” Write down what you’d do differently and then try to do at least 5 of those things.”
Wow… You don’t want to know what I’d do if I knew that day was my last. Let’s not put that into print
efax and finance~ Thank you! So happy to meet you. I look forward to learning more about you/how you see the world
Ian~ I think that’s a great plan! One of the reasons I love change is because it makes the world less predictable. Kind of cool to see all the winding roads you can take on any given day, and end up where you never expected. Then again, it’s also great to know at the end of the day there are certain familiar constants that make it all worthwhile. Good luck with your baby steps. I’d love to hear how they go!
Andrew~ Ha! Now I have to know. I bet it’s something good…
Wonder ful list.
I’ve been trying many of these for years, but several were brand new to me.
#20 is a must. I meet and connect with people everyday on Twitter and social media.. but there’s nothing like walking up to a person and saying hello. You never know what you will learn.
I’ve shared the GOOD ENERGY of this blog and post with the group working on the Good Energy Day Movement at http://GED999.com
On 9/9/9 the people of Earth will make s huge difference in small ways.. sharing good energy with one and other.
I hope you will join us.
Hi Warren~ I am glad you like the ideas and that you shared them with your group! I’m checking out the page now. Thanks for pointing me in that direction
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awesome! thank alot 4 sharing ur gr8 ideas……
thanks a lot
Nice list.
Lori,
I found myself shaking my head in agreement with many of these as I read the list. #10 is one of the most important, but probably the one that gives me the most difficulty. Even though it might be easy to come up with a compliment, I manage to talk myself out of saying it.
“What is s/he takes it the wrong way?”
Usually, that’s enough to stop me in my tracks…have to change that thought to, “What if this is the only nice thing they hear all day?” or something like that. I’m working on changing to that mindset, hopefully brightening the day just a little for a few people (myself included).
Excellent post and thanks for the link.
Rob
Rob~ That’s a great way to look at it (what if it’s the only nice thing she hears all day). I think when people take compliments the wrong way it’s often because they’re skeptical of kindness. But most people really appreciate those little gestures. I know I do! Thanks for reading and offering your thoughts
very exciting articles, learned much and be made happy.
Lori, I’m excited for 9/9/9 and excited you are promoting Good Energy!
Some bloggers are uniting to celebrate the day over here => Bloggers Unite http://www.bloggersunite.org/event/good-energy-day
AND Albany State University is involved over here => http://GoodEnergyMovement.com
To your good Energy,
Ben
9/9/9 We’re going to have a great day!
This is just brilliant.
I have tried quite a few of them for some time now. Recently I have started to bring my camera everywhere I go and you are right one does notice so much more. I really love #20 and when I have done that I do get a wonderful feeling afterwards.
Thank you for this. You are firmly on my blogroll
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Wow! What a great list! With this list in my refrigerator, my everyday will be a wonderful day!
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